I know, I know, there are lots of celebrations this month – Black History Month, American Heart Month, Cancer Prevention Month and who can forget Great American Pies Month. All of these are important things to recognize and focus on. For me, though, February will always be the month of love. This is partly because of Valentine’s Day and Heart Month but also because my parents and my son and my daughter-in-love all got married this month.
So let’s talk about love. How do you get over it and how do you get it are the two most often asked questions about love in my practice. A few years ago, I had 3 clients at the same time trying to get over lost loves. I’m happy to say they have all moved on and hopefully found love again--this time forever. One client was happily married but couldn’t stop going by the ex’s house every day. Through affirmations and hypnotherapy, that practice was stopped.
How do I help my clients find love? By setting an intention and creating a set of affirmations that will get them to their goal. I suggest that they think about what it is they are looking for in a partner and actually make a list of their wants. If a person really wants specific qualities or attributes then listing them can be helpful. What if someone comes along and doesn’t have the desired attributes, but they fall in love? Time to change the list! A list can be a great starting point as long as you are willing to be flexible.
It’s also important to remember that “If you are good on your own, you really can have a beautiful relationship.” (From Jennifer Lopez in “It’s A Beautiful Love Story” in February 14th People Magazine. She also says she gets her glow by “affirmations, eating right, exercise and “being a good person.”
Remember, what you think about comes to be, so be intentional in your thoughts. Whether you are looking for love or looking to get over love, focus on what you really want.
If you’d like more information on how hypnotherapy can help, check out my free Hypnotherapy Q & A every Wednesday at 10:00 am PST or call for a free consultation (818-929-4944).
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Sincerely,
Cinda
HypnoNews and Resources
Here’s more about hypnotherapy and love:
I Tried Hypnotherapy to Get Over My Breakup,
https://www.thecut.com/2015/03/i-tried-hypnotherapy-to-get-over-my-breakup.html
and
How I’m Using Hypnosis to Attract My Life Partner,
https://psiloveyou.xyz/how-im-using-hypnosis-to-attract-my-life-partner-8c45fd5defb9