COVID-19

Coping With COVID-19 Post-Lockdown Re-entry Anxiety

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When baby elephants begin to get trained, one foot is roped to a post in the ground.  They are small and the rope keeps them from moving away from the post.  Initially they may try, but they are not big and strong enough yet to break the rope or uproot the post and get free so eventually they stop trying. In reality, a fully grown elephant could easily break away and run free, but by then they have been conditioned to go no further than the rope will reach. So they never try. 

Conditioning through physical restraint is an established and effective technique for training baby elephants. Conditioning people’s behavior is a bit more complicated.

For 13 months or so, we have been conditioned, not through physical restraints, but through information (factual or not), fear, guidelines, rules, executive orders and legislation. We have been conditioned to stay home, leave only when absolutely necessary and always be careful when out with other people. In this way, we have developed a conditioned response to our fears about getting and spreading COVID-19 and if we don’t stay home. 

Now, while COVID -19 is still out there, more and more people are getting vaccinated and it may be time to venture out. What can we do to cope with the inevitable anxiety that comes with overcoming the powerful conditioning not to step out, that we have experienced?

Unlike the elephants, as fully grown adults we can choose to break away from the guidelines, rules and laws and overcome the fears and inevitable anxiety that accompanies the conditioning which no longer serves us.

As we begin to re-interact with the outside world, what can we expect?  We may find that people will have very different ideas of what re-entry means.  Some will immediately return to pre-pandemic activities and mindsets. Other may move more cautiously and still only venture out when necessary.

Where will you land on this spectrum?  My suggestion is that you do what makes you feel comfortable, knowing that others may make different decisions for themselves.

At this point, understanding and patience on everyone’s part will be the best way to handle re-entry.

If you are having trouble with how to navigate re-entry issues, hypnotherapy can help you focus on your goals and make a specific plan to achieve them

Sincerely,

Cinda

HypnoNews and Resources

 For more information about coping with lockdown and Post-COVID re-entry, please refer to the following two excellent articles:

https://www.wateringburysurgery.co.uk/coming-out-of-lockdown

https://www.mentalhealth.org.uk/coronavirus/looking-after-your-mental-health-we-come-out-lockdown

Needle Phobia and Covid-19 Vaccination Anxiety

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For nearly a year now you have been digesting the information about Covid-19 and solidifying the belief that it is a life threatening disease. Your stress and anxiety levels have skyrocketed as you struggled to determine and adopt new behaviors and practices that could slow the spread of the virus, help you to avoid getting sick yourself, and/or at least limit the severity of the illness if you do get infected.

Now, with the advent of at least three vaccines becoming available, the prospect for highly effective personal immunity is here. If enough of us get vaccinated our society may even achieve herd immunity.

How are you feeling about that news? Are you:

  • Exited and grateful that all you have to do is get one or two vaccination(s) so you can see your friends and hug you children again?

  • Happy that scientists have created the vaccines but a bit anxious about the safety of the vaccines or their side-affects that you may experience

  • So anxious and fearful at the mere thought of getting a shot in the arm that you would rather risk getting Covid?

If you find yourself in the third group, at some point between mild fear and extreme anxiety, you may have a condition known as trypanophobia or needle phobia (fear of needles). You are in good company. Needle phobia impacts up to twenty percent of people and causes many of them to avoid needed medical care.

So what is needle phobia, where does it come from and can it be overcome when you need to face a needle in the vital interests of your own health and well-being?

A needle phobia is defined as a fear of medical needle procedures.

Fears in general are natural responses to perceived danger in our environment. The perception of threat or danger triggers our instinctive, physiological fight or flight response which helps us escape from or handle the threat.

Phobias are usually grouped into two categories:

  • Specific or Simple phobias are learned response to an encounter with a certain object, animal, situation or activity. Fear of snakes, fear of flying, and fear of having an injection (vaccination) are examples of Specific phobias.

  • Complex Phobias are responses to more general, everyday activities. Consequently they can have a larger impact on your life. Agoraphobia  is one of the most common Complex phobias.

Phobias, while related to fears, are different in several ways. A phobia:

  • Is most commonly a learned response (not instinctual) which exists in your subconscious mind

  • Can be triggered by just thinking about the situation or object of the phobia

  • Is much more intense than a fear and can lead to major anxiety and even panic attacks

  • Develops when you have an exaggerated or unrealistic fear about a specific situation or object

  • Can cause great distress and hold you back from doing what you want/need to do

In the general context of fears and phobias, needle phobias would be classified as Specific or Simple phobias. You might have three different types of needle phobia:

  • A phobia which developed from an early traumatic experience with a medical needle procedure

  • A phobia which stems from an acute, intense hypersensitivity to pain or the sensation of a needle puncturing  your skin

  • A phobia where you faint or nearly lose consciousness before, during or after a medical needle procedure. It is generally agreed that this type of phobia is based on your instinctive, vasovagal reflex rather than a learned response.

It doesn’t matter what type of needle phobia you might have. When you think about getting a necessary vaccination, the intensity of the fear, stress and anxiety that you feel can hold you back from ever getting it done. If you manage to make the appointment anyway, you will want to know what you can do to prepare and better manage your phobia during and after the vaccination event.

Wherever your fear arises from, there is more to overcoming needle phobia than simply willing it away. The key is learning to use the power of your subconscious mind to change the way you respond to a medical needle procedure.

Hypnotherapy can help in several ways:   

  • In hypnotherapy, we first take a look at where the phobia began. Maybe it was a personal childhood trauma or an event you experienced as an adult. Maybe you learned from observing the experience of a parent, teacher, or other influential people in your life. Re-examining the event in a calm, non-judgmental environment can be a positive beginning.

  • TimeLine Therapy can help you travel back in time to examine the phobia from your current perspective. Sometimes that can be enough to help you realize that it is no longer needed or relevant to your life and you are able to let it go.

  •  Systematic desensitization may also be used.  You enter your deeply relaxed state (hypnosis), attempt to access the fear, let it pass, and then come back to your relaxed state. We repeat this exercise until you find it difficult or impossible to access your fear.

  • We can also use the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT or Tapping) to help you let go of fear.

  • After you have explored your phobia and determined that you can manage or let go of it, we write affirmations that cement in those positive thoughts. “I conquer my fear”, “I love getting my vaccine”, “I am healthy and well”.

Needle phobia can be debilitating and life-limiting. If your phobia becomes overwhelming, hypnotherapy can help. I will listen, ask questions, and help you get information and gain an understanding of your phobia. We will develop transformative affirmations that focus on the positive outcome that you desire

If you would like to talk with me about your fear of needles or have questions, please contact me. 

Sincerely,

Cinda

 HYPNONEWS AND RESOURCES 

For additional perspectives on needle phobia and Covid-19 vaccination please see articles below.

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/how-to-overcome-a-fear-of-needles-so-you-can-get-a-covid-19-vaccination

https://www.mayoclinichealthsystem.org/hometown-health/speaking-of-health/dont-let-fear-of-needles-interfere-with-vaccinations

Sleepless in Socal - Pandemic Insomnia

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She was going to school full-time, working full-time and was a single mom to 2 toddlers. She very carefully trained herself to get by on 2-3 hours of sleep per night. She was constantly in a state of stress and anxiety.

Eventually, she finished her degree, got a better job, and met a great guy.  Now she had time to sleep, but she was so well trained, she could only sleep 2-3 hours a night.  She wanted to be more rested, calm and relaxed. We worked on her bedtime ritual, adjusted her sleep environment so she was sleeping in a dark, quiet place. Soon she began enjoying a peaceful, refreshing, full night’s sleep on the same schedule as her family.

We are all under a tremendous amount of stress and anxiety during this pandemic. One of the best ways to counteract all that negativity is to take care of yourself. That begins with getting a good night’s sleep. Ever notice how everything looks better in the morning? That’s because your body and mind are more rested. With a good night’s sleep, your individual cells get rejuvenated and your conscious mind gets cleared. This can be compared to a computer re-boot – a necessary task to help your computer run better
and faster.

So what can you do if you have trouble getting a good 8 hours of sleep
every night? 

  • Be consistent – start your bedtime ritual at the same time every night, do the same things and get into bed at the same time.  Your mind and body can be trained to expect sleep at the same time every night and you will sleep better and easier.

  • Sleep in a cool dark room.  Limit outside light and computer light.  An eye mask can be a lifesaver.

  • Limit caffeine and alcohol to 2 hours before bed. Stop drinking caffeinated beverages 6-8 hours before bed. While alcohol appears to relax you for a while, it causes stimulation after the first hour and this can interfere with good sleep.

  • Limit eating to 2 hours prior to bed. If your stomach is digesting food, it is not ready for good sleep. 

  • Keep electronics out of the bedroom. TV and computers should be off or in a different room while you are sleeping. Your bed should be for sleeping (and related activities) only. It’s probably OK to be unplugged for 8 hours each night.

These suggestions may help you improve your sleep. Many clients are also helped through hypnotherapy. I am ready to work with you online. You can reach out today.